Today, I’ve been married for nine years. Through those nine years, I’ve had four different jobs, four different addresses, three kids, one operation; I can go on forever. But despite those changes, there are a couple of things that I know have remained the same. First, I know that my love for her is there and is stronger than what it was before. Second, I still feel a sense of emptiness when she is not in the same room. Third, I still tell her how much I love her on a daily basis because I just can’t not say it and lastly she has been the reason why home is. One other thing that I’ve observed in these past nine years, is that God has never ceased to amaze me with this marriage. How He’s blessed, challenged and nurtured our relationship with each other through thick and thicker. It is my wish that as we go through the next nine years, that I be more like Christ. I wish to be a better husband, I wish I could show my wife what it really means for me to love just as how Christ intends it. For husbands, this means love […]

I remember that day when I stood nervously next to a pew, feverishly dialing my phone and hoping that either of my parents would pick up the phone. That day was not like any other day. I woke up early so I could change my clothes and get ready for the days affairs. I remembered putting the video camera in front of me so I could remember every detail possible on that day. The phone rang five or six times before I heard that all so familiar voice. “Hello?” It was my mom. I told her it was me and she asked me how I was. I told her I was nervous and that I couldn’t feel my legs. She probably laughed from the inside but she went on encouraging me. A couple minutes into the convrsation, she handed the phone to my dad and I almost brke down from there but I was able to keep my composure. I was getting married that day and due to uncontrollable circumstances, none of of my family was there with me. Nevertheless my parents were so gracious during that day in expressing their happiness with my decision. Probably hurting because they weren’t […]