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Q.  When and who we told first…
We told our girls 1st after we found out we were pregnant.  Emma was already expecting a baby since she would pray for it every day, sometimes even crying for it.  Zienne was a little more hesitant at 1st but was happy to become an Ate.  We told Perze’s family 2nd then that night, we told mine after dinner.  They were excited to ask the girls what they thought and felt.